Life is not always a bed of roses but it is more like a roller coaster ride. There are times in life when we find we landed ourselves in a wrong place. There are times when experiences are awful. It happens at home, office or business.
Common tendency to set on fault finding trail in the name of taking corrective measures, in such circumstances. It only creates bad blood. In any case, any amount of accusing, cursing, or lamenting is going to get you out of the mess.
It does not really matter whether you are in mess because of yourself, someone else or circumstances. What is actually required is specific decisive and corrective action directed towards to goal